Okay I just had the greatest little mini-revelation I think I've ever had on this little sleep:
Why do I never leave guys? Why do I always wait for them to leave me?
For instance, in my very last relationship, he called a "break" of sorts, with no modifiers; no time limit, no real explanation, nothing. And I was miserable for that week or so. Not to mention, it put him in a position of power over me, and our relationship. Gross.
New goal:
If I'm not completely happy within a situation, I'm going to start calling it quits. I've wasted a lot of time waiting for other people to break up with me, and for what? How does that help me?
The answer is: it doesn't, and it's not going to start in the future.
So I'm done. Fini. I'm done being that sap.
Maybe people don't really change without my noticing it, but maybe I just didn't want to see the changes before.
Okay, off to class! But I'm pretty proud of this discovery. It's not often we can pinpoint something like this.
From now on: No problem cutting the ties.
Even when it's not happily ever after.
End of story.
About Me
- Emilie
- I love art. I love music. I'm in love with the idea of love. I think photography is the cat's meow. I hate what money can do to people. I like home-made, or well thought out presents best. If poetry was a man- it would be the perfect lover. I love sips of coffee, in my greatest company. I like going out. I'm athletic. I like dressing up. Glasses, and good conversation, are two of my turn-ons. Theatre is the only lover I regret breaking up with. I love learning new things. I hate unintelligible speaking, and small-mindedness. I love French everything. Black and white, is my scene. I like to think of myself as in-containable. Come run with me.
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